It’s been a long, long time since I’ve written and I mean truly written. So today I decided to speak my truths and there are so many swirling around in my mind that I’m not quite sure where to begin. I guess I’ll write you a letter and just never send it out…nothing could go … Continue reading It’s been a long time…
This was never a "he said, she said". This has always been a "he says" in his own words kind of rape confession. And probably why it is so difficult for me to understand how anyone who has heard this recording can look the other way. I don't feel like the video needs any explanation. … Continue reading He said…
I'm doing my thing. I'm trying to figure it all out, put the pieces of the puzzle in some order, trying to lay them all out, a cards on the table kinda thing. That thing, that's the thing I'm doing. I went back. I didn't want to. I've spent almost the entire majority of my … Continue reading Pure
So I keep reading the same type of comments appearing in my Facebook feed over and over again. Comments like... "why didn't they come forward sooner?" " I have no sympathy for anyone who waited 10, 20 or 30 years plus to come forward" "I don't believe it" "Oh, so a compliment is sexual harassment now?" … Continue reading You think it’s that easy huh? (Coming forward after being sexually assaulted)
He offered his friendship after offering me the world. When I asked him to define what this meant, do we hang out? do we do things together? or are we now just one of those acquaintances who hangs out in the periphery of each others lives with no actual face to face interaction? What does … Continue reading Just friends…how can I?
I crave you in such a specific way. It's the way your eyes cloud over when you are going to "our" place. The place we unlocked together with our intimacy. The place you felt safe exploring your sexual limits and I felt safe opening my desires up to you. I crave the sound of your … Continue reading Crave
My work published at Controlled Chaos, under my column "Anything but Vanilla" http://www.canyoucontrolthechaos.com/what-i-learned-about-women-from-men/
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I am really excited to announce the launch of Controlled Chaos magazine!! I have been brought on as a columnist for them. My column is titled "Anything but Vanilla" and is geared to discuss the not so pretty and perfect side of relationships and sex.... If you are so inclined I have attached the link … Continue reading CONTROLLED CHAOS MAGAZINE LAUNCH
Going to try this forum since I get so many emails on various sites. I am going to try to consolidate and answer as many questions as you have (if any). I will try to answer as openly and honestly as possible. Please feel free to submit questions in the comments section and I will … Continue reading Ask me anything…..